This writing was intriguing to read in this very moment for me as it discusses our relationship to social media platforms, and I am currently conducting a social media ~cleanse~ so to speak. I’m a little more removed from all of this than I normally would be, and this renewed my confidence in why I’m choosing to distance myself from all these platforms. They compete for my attention and leave me feeling like I’ve just eaten a shitty thanksgiving dinner: uncomfortably full but dissatisfied with what I just consumed.
I found Copley’s ideas about multitasking and the splitting of ourselves across multiple online platforms and even text chat groups in the Mute Conversations section to be especially interesting. While there are plenty of times I’ve found texting to be overwhelming and exhausting, I had never fully considered how I am in constant conversation with many people all at once. This reminds me of a quote from Susan Sontag I came across recently that says “Time exists in order that everything doesn’t happen all at once … and space exists so that it doesn’t all happen to you." Copley is saying in this writing that the way we communicate via the internet actually challenges our traditional interactions with time and space, allowing for them to condense and expand on a whim.
And what scares me even more is this idea that I am fragmenting myself to perform and interact with different people in different times and different places…constantly. This cannot be a sustainable way of communication and building connections. I can tell I don’t like where this is all headed but I am unsure of how to stop it or remove myself from this environment. To remove oneself is to constantly feel out of the loop or miss out on what’s happening around you; I honestly feel this right now in my social media cleanse.
The solution seems to throw this all out and go back to slower paced, smaller, more individual-focused interactions and ways of sharing information, but large corporations investment in semiocapital and the future of our current economy does not seem like it will allow us to move back to a more safe and quiet online existence.